why we entertain? tons and tons and tons of work.. for what?? a bitchy spouse and achy joints?

Granted, if the guests ever arrive we will all have a good time. But Father in Law told hubby an hour ago that they would be here in forty minutes… still no show, and a few minutes ago, FIL called and they had not even left their house yet. So, in the mean time I am cooking, cause we will feed the kids whether the guests are here or not. Partly cause I have a schedule I keep my kids on, and lateness is a rudeness that really really pisses me off. Really, what better way to tell someone that you think your time is much more important than yours than to be late?

ARGH!!! Off to go finish dinner…