OMG, I can’t stop laughing

I was recently given a link, I followed it and found this and I can’t stop laughing. Yes, I know who Urban Femmes is, it is an offshoot of The Board, and I am fairly certain who the unwanted member is . I really wish I knew who was behind this drama blog, because I would love to help them out! My husband thinks I have lost my mind because I am laughing so hard at this. So, who knows who is behind it?? let me know, I have some things to contribute!

you know…

For the last year, since it was dumped in my lap, every time there was major drama, I was told that we should just close the board, it wasn’t worth the stress, it wasn’t worth the tears, it wasn’t worth what it was doing to me. And every time I would tell who ever was telling me it at the time, that no, I couldn’t do that to my members, to my friends. I had sworn not to just drop it in someones else’s lap, like was done to me, not to just close up with no warning, like I had been told I would eventually do. I stood up and refused to do what I felt would be a disservice to all the members of the board.

Now, a year later, when I have decided that I can’t take it anymore, I am doing my best to create a smooth, well thought out transition so all the members have a place to go and are not lost in the transition, or just dumped. I am giving, not selling and creating an income, or making this place a “cash cow” for myself, everything, including the bank accounts that run this place, to the new owners. And still, nothing I can do is right, I am “flouncing off in a huff” and dumping the board, at least according to some extremely vocal members.

Is it any wonder I can’t take this anymore? if you were on the receiving end of the attacks I have received how would you stand up? Would you have managed to keep it open, and flourishing for the last year when you were told repeatedly that it wasn’t worth it?
I realize that no matter what I do, I can’t please everyone, and there are some, and it appears many at this moment, that no matter what I do, they will find fault, even if I am not involved, it must somehow be my fault. I understand that.
I am trying to continue to make this a smooth transition to the new place, for the members, because after all this, it is more than clear that I am not welcome or wanted at the place, and I won’t be going.

Carry on.

The day has come.

I am done at The Board. I will remain around as admin but I am not going to force my presence on people who resent and revile that I exist and post along side of them. I am who I am, and if that is too brash to suit you oh the fuck well, I am not going to be saccharine sweet, and lie to you to make you like me, unlike some of those who are so loved.

It has been suggested that I could just close The Board, and start a new one, inviting only those I want to see there, but that does not sit right with me, at least not now. I MIGHT consider opening another board, but I will not close The Board over it.

your opinion?

Idjuts surround us.

i am sick of being attacked for stating my opinion, I am sick of the people who feel they need to educate me until I see things their way (as if, because I do not share their opinion I must be a poor, uninformed hick). I am sick of people who quote  proven unreliable sources as proof of what they say, and then get pissed when you laugh at them. (legal advise on Wikipedia style).

When I apologize for stirring up drama, and state that I will be taking a break for a bit.  I make clear what I am apologizing for, it is not a YAGE, it is not a “I am sorry you feel that way.” it was an apology, it was very clear what it was. If you do not like it , oh the fuck well, ignore me, ignore the thread, go the fuck away, but leave me the hell alone, I don’t want to interact with you anymore. I am sick of trying to placate those who are never happy with anything but ripping people, usually me, to shreds. Then they have the gall to call *ME* miserable? To hell with that…

On with regularly scheduled real life… you know.. the one that matters.

Note to self….

things NOT to do….

1. legal research on Wikipedia

2. threaten legal action that has no grounds

3. plan to file said legal action for a friend

4. threaten to take revenge on every family if “accusations” are not retracted.

5. let my crazy show.

6. make multiple inflammatory and and physically threatening posts while threatening legal action

7. forget to take my medication that helps with my crazy

8. continue to spew hate and discontent because I am not getting the attention I think I deserve.

if I ever do any of these, please remind me why people point and laugh.

inspiration???  Look here.. crazy starts with comment #9 and follows through all of that poster’s comments.

What is it with the crazies?

Why do we have to deal with some nut job spreading crazy shit all over our board at least once a month? and I mean things that will lead to members calling the local (to the crazy) police or CPS, because they believe that there are children in danger…. WHY?

Bit of advice… keep it in mind…

DON’T SPREAD YOUR PERSONAL SHIT ALL OVER THE INTERNET!!!

News Flash

if you are blunt, brash, somewhat abbrasive, state things the way you see them, and own your words, fully admitting that you can be a bitch, you are now known as childish.

Didn’t want anyone to be surprised by this new development.

In search of.

New home on the interwebz. No duckies, bunnies, or sunshine and rainbows blown up your ass, I just want to have a place to be able to state things like I see them, and have the same done to me. Honesty is a must. User friendly interface appreciated, but not a must. Troll control optional, I have the ability to ignore them. Ignore feature a plus.

I have been made unwelcome in the home I built, now must find a new one.

eeeks, gasp,

oh no! I did not!!!

I am in shock, I have just made myself feel old. I called one of my members (the Board) Kiddo. *sigh* she really isn’t a kid, but she makes me feel so much older than she is. Blah. Next thing I know I will be calling everyone younger than me ‘Child’! Deep breath. don’t panic. I will get through this. lol

insight.

I have realized that little hurts more than realizing that you are no longer wanted or very welcome in a place that you have built to be a safe haven for you and your friends.

All I can do is move on.